Planning a wedding can be an exciting and fulfilling experience, but at the same time, it can be a little overwhelming. Especially if you are planning a cross-cultural wedding! India is a mix of more cultures you can count on one hand, and now more than ever, love doesn’t recognize the boundaries of geography or language. One of the things that make India so unique is the myriad of cultures and traditions it has. Every state in India has a different culture and tradition. That is just India and its cultures though!
Think about all the ones that come from different parts of the world. Cross-Culture weddings don’t just have to be Indian customs and traditions, they can also be with cultures from across the globe. Having planned and executed multiple weddings like these, we do have some tricks up our sleeve. Here are a few pointers you can keep in mind to execute the perfect cross-cultural wedding:
CHOOSE THE RIGHT VENUE:
The venue you choose should accommodate all your guests comfortably, and it should be accessible for all your guests. Consider the different traditions that will be present at your wedding, and choose a venue that can cater to all of them. If you’re having people travel from across the country or the world, a venue closer to the city’s airport might be a good option. But if you have family from all across the city as well, then try to choose a venue that’s in the middle of everything. Certain cultures in India need a closed mantap for a wedding and some wedding themes might make you want to get married outdoors. Keeping all these factors in mind will also help determine if you need an open venue or a closed one.
Plan Ahead for Different Customs and Traditions
India is a diverse country with many different cultures and traditions. Before you start planning your wedding, research the customs and traditions of the different cultures that will be present at your wedding. This will help you plan the different ceremonies and events and ensure that everyone feels included. Even though rituals differ according to culture, each family carries them differently, so check with the elders on following customs and traditions. Traditions that are non-Indian may add a fun element to your event and a happy surprise to the family who has traveled from abroad. Trying to incorporate these small additions will make the wedding more special and personal.
Create a Fusion Menu
Food is an essential part of any Indian wedding, and it’s important to consider the different dietary restrictions of your guests. Create a fusion menu that incorporates different cuisines and flavors to cater to everyone’s tastes. Make sure to take note of everyone’s likes and dislikes, and most importantly make sure no one has allergic reactions to the ingredients. You could also put up little cards stating what ingredients are used so guests are better informed.
PLAN YOUR ATTIRE
Indian weddings are known for their colorful and vibrant attire. If you’re planning a cross-cultural wedding, consider incorporating elements of both cultures into your attire. You can also work with a designer to create a unique outfit that reflects both cultures. Choosing upcoming designers will be cost-effective and help you stick with your ideas.
Incorporate Music and Dance
Music and dance are an essential part of any Indian wedding. Consider incorporating multiple genres of music and dance into your wedding events to celebrate the different cultures of your wedding. A mashup is a great way to add to the mix. Adding the famous Naatu Naatu song that has global recognition to the mix is also a great way to bring both cultures together.
Communicate with Your Guests
Communication is key when it comes to planning a cross-cultural wedding. Keep your guests informed about the different events and customs that will take place at the wedding. Make an itinerary or a room card and place them in the rooms before your guests’ check-in. This will help them feel included and ensure that they are prepared for any cultural surprises they may encounter.
Hire The Tales of Tradition As Your Wedding Planner
Hiring The Tales of Tradition to be your wedding planner would be the easiest way for you to go ahead with your cross-cultural wedding! Highly experienced in planning cross-cultural weddings, with a multi-lingual team and a deep understanding of customs and traditions from various parts of India, the team ensures a smooth sailing wedding. Taking careful consideration of both cultures and their intricate needs, our wedding planning team can provide you with expert advice and suggestions, helping you navigate different traditions, and coordinate with different vendors at the price you need.
